Free Resources These full articles will give you an example of what to expect from the full version of the Recovery Library. The rest of the categories on the left contain small previews of resources from the full Recovery Library. Must Reads more less Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery The Problem with Forgiveness Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse How to Survive Infidelity Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? The Power of Small Groups Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision 273 Resources Type Title Posted Therapist Mistakes When Dealing with Infidelity 3/03/2015 Q&A What is Each Spouse's Role in Handling Triggers? 2/24/2015 Surviving Infidelity: Poor Recovery Decisions of Unfaithful Spouses - Part 2 10/23/2014 Using the Time Well: Try the First Steps Bootcamp 9/17/2014 I Only Have Eyes for You 8/19/2014 Practical Tips for Understanding Trauma and Creating Emotional Safety 5/22/2014 The Seduction of Blame 5/21/2014 Official Rules of Drawings 10/30/2013 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse 10/15/2013 What We Learned at EMS Weekend 9/04/2013 Rekindling Desire After Infidelity 6/26/2013 Interview of EMS Online Participants 7/01/2012 6 Steps To Confronting Your Mate About Betrayal 4/03/2012 Telling Your Children After the Affair Doesn’t Always Turn Out As Expected 7/27/2011 How Many Marriages does Ashley Madison Save? 3/03/2011 Q&A How Do Men Compartmentalize? 8/23/2010 Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal 3/26/2010 Disclosing the Affair: Do I Tell or Not? 2/24/2010 The Shocking Truth About Trust 1/26/2010 Why Did My Spouse Cheat? 8/21/2009 Grace in Recovery 3/09/2008 Anger Management 12/30/2007 Surviving the Holidays: An Interview with Dr. Karen Royer 12/16/2007 Pages« first‹ previous123456